Per my post last week, this week I'm featuring a guest blogger. I'm so thrilled that my sister, Barb (a fabulous singer, performer, mom, and now--also--writer), volunteered to be my guest. Okay. She didn't volunteer. But since she made the suggestion, I snagged her. See what happens when you have a bright idea? *g*
If any one else would like to guest blog here, just say the word! Meanwhile.... meet Barb!
What’s in a name?
I was born Barbara Jean Miller. My sister Beverly JoAnn and I were named after our two aunts, Barbara JoAnn and Beverly Jean. My parents were so clever weren't they?
Not really.
I understand honoring family members by using their names but you have to think of the children. While everyone around us was getting named Jennifer, Kimberly and Melissa and getting cute nicknames like Jenny, Kim and Missy, I got stuck with Barbara, which of course turned into Barbie and Beverly got stuck with B.J. or Beaver. Ugh.
Does anyone love the name they’re born with?
My sister Brenda Lou named my younger sister Brandy Sue. I think Brandy is a beautiful name (not sure about Sue) but of course Brandy hates it. She thinks it makes her sound like an “exotic dancer”.
My friend Teri is actually Teresa Jo but she hates that, hence…Teri. Even that is changed from Teri-dog to Tressa to Jo Jo and sometimes, Phoenix. (don’t ask)
Later in life, I followed in the footsteps of both Beth and Brenda and started my singing career. I absolutely hated being announced as Barb on stage so I bought a baby book and christened myself Justen, pronounced just like the male name Justin. Don’t ask me why, but I loved that name and thought it made me soooo cool.
Then I met my future husband Larry, who prefers to be called L.J. for Larry Jr. He only refers to people by the 1st syllable of their name. Brenda is Bren, Brandy is Bran, Teri is Ter, I’m… Just. You get the idea. Anyway, he suggested I have my name legally changed to Justen. I was torn. I didn’t want to offend my mother, but I detested Barbara. I compromised. After a quick court session I became Barbara Justen Miller and later Barbara Justen Hisle.
Now I’m starting my new endeavor and following in Beth’s footsteps once again. I’ve begun writing. Of course the thought of a Pseudonym crossed my mind as a way to change my name yet again.
Great!
Time for me to be clever! My daughter's name is Logan and my son is Jax, so I thought I would take the 1st letter from each of their names and become Elle Jay. Get it? Like I said…clever. Except it wasn’t. I googled the name Elle Jay and there are a bazillion and two of them out there, so I guess I’m back to the drawing board.
So my question to you is… Do you like your name and if you could change it what would it be?
Oh, and feel free to suggest a pen name for me!